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Sensory Bin

For my son’s birthday, I decided to make a sensory bin for him. For those who may not know what that is, I’ll explain. A sensory bin is typically a plastic tub or a large container of some sort filled with materials and objects carefully selected to stimulate the senses. It can be filled with a large variety of different materials such as shredded paper, water beads, water, pom poms, sand, and more.

This was not the least expensive gift, I will admit, and it did require assembly, but I think he really will enjoy it. Every time we come across kinetic sand he stands there for long periods, fascinated by it. So I knew I needed to include it. Our friend got some water beads and he attempted to get into the tub with them and sit down. So those certainly needed to also be included.

I got a jar of Squoosho’s water beads and Kinetic Sand. I want to emphasis how tiny this jar is. I was shocked when my order arrived and it was a small box. But I also want to make it a point to note how little you need to make a large quantity of beads. This one tiny jar would probably fill a bathtub. The kinetic sand however was smaller than I expected. It’s more dense than plain sand and a smaller amount can weigh more. So the 3 lbs I don’t think was enough, I might go buy another bag. The beads were $9.99, but like I said, you get a lot for that. The sand was $7.29 for 3lbs, but I would go ahead and get the 6lb bag that is $14.

*amendment: I have now learned you shouldn’t get kinetic sand wet, and being in a tote with water beads will get it wet. It’s still functional, but it sticks to your hands after being dampened. So, I now would suggest getting just plain sand.

I found a tote for $9.95. It’s a flat one designed to fit under a bed. I could’ve done fine with a smaller size, but this one is large enough both my kids can play in it and not be all over each other. The only issue I have now with the size I got is that the amount of sand is smaller than I’d guessed, but the water beads are so plentiful, they make up for it.I got some tiny plastic dinosaurs and reptiles in those assortment tubes. A couple large dinos from the Dollar Tree, and two large rocks my older child collected on nature walks.I wanted this to be the land and water with the sand and beads. But, the earth is covered with mostly water so I suppose its accurate. I’m justifying the dinosaurs in the beads with the fact some dinos did infact live in the water. Maybe not those kinds, but some of them did! I may drop back at the Dollar Tree and find a sea dwelling dinosaur. I also put a tiny shovel, and sand castle mold in the box. And then I paired this gift with a front loader truck he can also dig with. I got the truck on sale, so I was able to keep the price down!This gift took a little more effort on my part than other gifts would have, but you can’t buy these either. In total, including the front loader I spent close to $40 for all of this. I actually thought I’d save money making a gift, but I did not. It is worth it though to see my gleeful child happy.

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December Babies

Everyone has heard about people who have December birthdays and hate them. Having a child born in December means I’ve got to make an effort to keep his birthday special.

One of the biggest things I’ve heard from December babies is how their parents would just let them pick a gift from under the tree early, or wrap it up in Christmas paper. They’d get a Christmas themed cake and party. Christmas over shadowed their entire birthday while summer babies get an entirely seperate holiday on their birthdays. So for our family, this means I need to make the point to keep his birthday separated from Christmas. His gifts are never wrapped in Christmas paper or bags. His cake is always birthday themed and never red or green. We don’t put any gifts under the tree until after his birthday is over. He never gets his Christmas gifts for his birthday, meaning he gets the same amount of gifts as his brother for Christmas and other gifts for his birthday. This forces me to start planning his birthday early so I am able to fit all his gifts and everything for Christmas into the budget. But it keeps his birthday a birthday and not just another ornament on Christmas.

Another issue I’ve heard about December birthdays is that kids get regifted, unwanted Christmas gifts at their parties. This is something I as the parent can’t really control. My birthday is in January, but I don’t remember this being a thing, but I also don’t remember the gifts I got, so it’s possible it happened. My only solution to this is to teach my kids to value good friendships. My goal isn’t to encourage them to stack up as many friends as they can, but to nurture good friendships. While I’m sure there will be a year when he wants to invite his entire class to his party, I’m hoping they learn quality over quantity. So if that means they have smaller parties with their besties, I’m ok with that. But I also hope that means they receive gifts from those friends that aren’t regifted white elephant gifts their friends didn’t want.

I don’t really know if my efforts will ensure my son will love his birthday beyond degree, but hopefully it means he won’t hate it beyond degree.